「去那兒」之二
發文者為 awareself 於 一月 17, 2007
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liberatingmyheart 說
曾經,我也汲汲營營想要“去那兒”,至於為什麼要“去那兒”,我並不清楚,我只知道“大家”都要去“那兒”,我也似乎必須往那兒去 —一條所謂成功的路; 我從不知道人生還有其他的路 – 屬於我自己的路. 在走向那條所謂成功的路,從掙扎到迷失,我慌亂的責備自己的無能,不知 “我” 出了什麼差錯,為何努力總到不了“那兒”. 我,越來越不快樂. 終於,有一天我發現,這條路線與我的心離的好遠好遠,而我無法繼續走下去如果我離我的心太遠. 於是,我停了下來,轉個頭,朝我的心走去. 這條路很艱難,沒有固定的路線與模式,無法掌控,充滿無法預期的挑戰,然而,這是一條屬於我的路,心的路.
awareself 說
很高興我們都可以走在這條”心之路”, 謝謝你分享珍貴的感言!
Joy 說
To travel on an unbeaten path is lonely. For me, often it is a battle of “what I want” and what others think is good for me. It is exhausting to fend off these voices from the outside that tell me of all the “shoulds”. Being true to me, is to also experience all that is there, the anxiety, the frustrations, the guilt, the doubts, the losses… and it is also being hopeful, being honest, and being real.
awareself 說
Joy, I am very touched by your courage. It is quiut a journey of experiencing your inner challenges like anxiety and guilt along the way. Please remember that you have my support.
Liberatingmyheart, I am so glad that you, Joy and I all are on this precious way of heading “home.” Because of this connection, we learn that we are not alone on oursignificant journeys. YES!!
章成 說
凱麟：
很喜歡「三姊妹」的故事，尤其是姊姊在病床上，為了拿花打翻水，心情轉折的那一段，寫得真好。感謝你跟我們分享這個動人又有啟示的故事。
可以請問這個故事的出處嗎？它是可以轉載的嗎？
也很驚喜看到你出現在我的部落格。
awareself 說
章成:
謝謝你欣賞「姊姊妹妹和她們胸口的洞」的故事, 本部落格所載的所有故事及書寫內容, 都是我自己的創作, 歡迎你轉載。 有空的話請再來逛逛,也歡迎你推薦給可能對我的部落格有興趣的朋友們。
我知道你現在經歷的事情很不容易, 也很欣賞你和你的parnter的勇氣與決心, 請繼續加油! 我很喜歡去你的部落格感受你的分享。
Chi 說
Huh… Good questions! I guess that pretty much summarized what we human are. We all want to belong, but then why do we want to belong? At the same time, why do some people have to be so critical to those who choose their own path? They say they are only trying to help because the other path is either more bumpy or is a dead end. Who is right? Or should I ask which is true?
It got me thinking about questions I have on a society that puts more and more emphasis on individualism, competitiveness, success,and leadership, how do we re-evaluate followers? Like a performer without audiences, a leader would feel lonely too if there are no followers. In a way, a leader still need to follow other people’s heart in order to persuade others to follow…. We want to it but we don’t want it, human are so conflicted and contradicted.
Thank you for a wonderful little story.
awareself 說
Chi,
Isn’t it unbelievable that we can follow without thinking?
Isn’t it so interesting that we don’t think deeply about what we want?
Isn’t it so funny that how we are formed by our culture and society?
Thanks for your wonderful reflection.